Here’s How to Harness the Sexy Power of Visual Stimulation: Nᵒ4 Secrets of the Sexually Empowered

It's a rumor that men are more visually stimulated, so don't believe the B.S. When we're sexually confident and empowered, we have the power to be as turned on by what we see as much, if not more than men. The practical proof: In life, we pay attention to the details—so why would sex be any different?!?! You can bet when we let our creative pleasure center (aka our mind) take in stimulation from our eyes, our arousal has chart topping potential.

Know what stimulates your sight

Do you think you’re not visually stimulated? The reality is many are embarrassed to admit what turns them on, and others simply don’t know. Let your mind run wild. It’s something you can explore in private checking out different erotic images online, in magazines or books, and see how your body responds. As you figure out what you like, put a modern twist on a collage and create a digital inspiration board. Who knows, something that catches your eye may turn into a fantasy that you may or may not want to act out.

Lounge in lingerie with your partner

You don’t actually need to wear something sexy, but it does make it more fun. Then, watch TV, movies and even amateur porn, and you’ll get a better sense of the sexual realm—what kisses, touch, positions, sexual scenes, or other erotic highlights—that get you and your partner hot.

Recreate a scene

Once you know what sparkes your interest, make it happen. Perhaps it’s doing something cliché like wearing red lipstick, a sexy bra and panty set and stilettos in a candlelit room,  or some other sexy move in bed. Or, having a hot romp in a chic hotel lobby bathroom or trendy restaurant. The “see”cret: know the surroundings will surely boost your libido (and hopefully your partners too). 

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